Phra Ajaan Keng Khemako Bhikkhu (lay name: Ong Kah Keng) was ordained on 29 July 2530 (1987), at Wat Asokaram, Samut Prakaan Province, Thailand. Phrakhru Sunthorn Dhammarangsee (Abbot of Wat Phayaprap, Phra Padaeng), was his Preceptor, Phrakhru Suvanna Dhammajoti (late Abbot of Wat Asokaram) was his Kammavācācariya, and Phrakhru Nanda Dhammakhun (Deputy Abbot of Wat Asokaram), his Anusāsanācariya.
Immediately after his ordination, he headed to Wat Dhammasathit, Rayong, Thailand to begin his monastic training under Phra Ajaan Ṭhānissaro Bhikkhu.
After the first three years of monastic and meditation training, he felt that he had gained enough spiritual strength and grounding in Dhamma-Vinaya and was ready to undertake the dhutanga practices (tudong) and to go on pilgrimage in the deep forests for even more intensive training in meditation. As he had often heard of the beauty and tranquility of the forests in the Kanchanaburi province from Phra Ajaan Ṭhānissaro, he decided to head to that location for his first tudong pilgrimage. He spent a very fulfilling and eventful period of intensive meditation, living in the open forest alongside Phra Ajaan Sathien Samācāro. This first tudong experience gave him the confidence and conviction that newly ordained monks should live in forested areas to develop their meditative skills.
As a result, he decided to spend time in the deep forests and mountains of Thailand, preferring the forest contemplative lifestyle of the forest monk to that of living in urban centers.
The intention to live the forest contemplative life saw him spending the next five years (from 1989) in the deep forests of Mae Sot and Chieng Mai, living on the kindness and support of the hill tribes. While he was residing in Mae Sot, he was under the tutelage of Phra Ajaan Den Nandiyo, another disciple of Than Phor Fuang and Luang Puu Jiak. Phra Ajaan Keng began studying under the tutelage of Luang Puu Jiak in 1988 – he first met Luang Puu Jiak on the occasion of the transfer of Than Phor Fuang’s body back to Wat Dhammasathit.
Phra Ajaan Keng was also trained to recite the Bhikkhu Pāṭimokkha (the Therevada monks’ 227 rules of conduct) by Luang Puu Oonla Ṭhitadhammo, Abbot of Wat Paa Kaew Chumpol, located in Tambon Kho Tai, Amphur Sawang Daen Din, Sakhon Nakhon Province. Luang Phuu Oonla is considered a specialist in the Pāṭimokkha recitation by his peers in the Forest Meditation Tradition. Pāṭimokkha recitation is an important monastic skill, as the reciter of the Pāṭimokkha has to be able to remember all 227 rules by heart and to adhere strictly to the procedures for doing so.
Phra Ajaan Keng subsequently went to live at Metta Forest Monastery, San Diego county, USA, on the invitation of Phra Ajaan Ṭhānissaro.
Wat Metta is located in the hills outside of San Diego county and was founded by Phra Ajaan Suwat Suvaco in 2533 (1990). Phra Ajaan Keng spent three Rains retreats in Wat Metta, assisting Phra Ajaan Ṭhānissaro in teaching the members of the growing Sangha and lay community.
Upon returning from the USA, Phra Ajaan Keng spent time in Thailand, Singapore, and Malaysia. With a growing following of monastic and lay supporters, he founded Santi Forest Monastery in the Ulu Tiram area of the State of Johor, Malaysia. While working on the project to set up Wat Santi, he continued to look for secluded forests in Thailand to continue his practice. This took him to a tribal village in Omkoi, in Chieng Mai Province. After four years in this area, he decided to help the villagers by setting up a monastery there. He named this monastery Wat Paa Doi Charoentam.
His intention in setting up a monastery in this primitive village was twofold: 1) to create a conducive environment for the training of monks in the forest contemplative tradition, and 2) to show gratitude and compassion for the villagers, giving them the opportunity to make merit for a better life here and hereafter. He considered the younger generation of monks not mentally tough enough, and because most of them used to live in city areas, as he had, they were not prepared for the harsh conditions of living in impoverished conditions. The villagers were mainly surviving on sticky rice and salt/chillies, so that was all that they could offer to the monks during their alms round. However, Phra Ajaan Keng felt very strongly, through his own experience, that practising under such conditions would create a strong foundation for the monks. The founding of the monastery in Omkoi helped not only the monks. The lay community from Singapore and Malaysia also benefitted from the exposure to the harsh conditions that the hill tribesmen had to live in. A member of the Management Committee of Wat Santi once visited Omkoi and commented that he realised how ‘rich’ he was, when compared to the poor the villagers. To Phra Ajaan Keng, such harsh conditions were the perfect places for developing the quality of khanti (patience/ endurance).
Although he kept to the forest contemplative lifestyle, preferring to dwell in forests and caves, Phra Ajaan Keng was still active in propagating the teachings and practice of Buddhism to the peoples of Singapore, Malaysia, and Thailand. He has acted as a mentor and guide to other monks from Singapore and Malaysia. Over the years, he has helped more than 150 men obtain ordination in the Thai Buddhist Sangha and is continuing to do so.
To give more Singaporeans and Malaysians the opportunity to obtain ordination and to enable the Sangha of Wat Santi to conduct their official duties in accordance with the DhammaVinaya, Phra Ajaan Keng established the ordination hall in Wat Santi, the first ordination hall of a Dhammayut monastery in both Singapore and Malaysia. The consecration of the hall was attended by 135 monks from both the Dhammayut and MahaNikaya sects of the Thai Buddhist tradition, along with more than 1,000 lay people from all three countries. Immediately after the consecration, 68 men were ordained as monks in the ordination hall. This is testimony of Phra Ajaan Keng’s sphere of influence and is indeed a first on all counts, in the history of Malaysia and Singapore.
In 2015, in order to celebrate Singapore’s 50th Anniversary of Independence, Phra Ajaan Keng organised a mass ordination of 58 men in Singapore. As there was no appropriate sīmā hall to ordain these individuals, a ‘water sīmā’ was used to conduct the ordination, with a rented yacht dedicated to the purpose. This was followed by nine days of monastic training for the newly ordained bhikkhus. Together with the lay community, the new monks participated in an overnight chanting of protective discourses on the eve (8th August 2015) of Singapore’s National Day. Phra Ajaan Keng also arranged for the minting and consecration of a special-edition amulet of the Buddha blessing the island of Singapore to commemorate this special occasion.
Phra Ajaan Keng’s compassion is not just towards those who are ordained or seeking ordination. He has also helped many individuals in facing the challenges of daily life.
One example is that of a lady named Patricia from Singapore. She had contracted cancer for about six years and although it was in remission, it returned to attack her in 1991. As she was a close friend of Sis. Wendy (Bro. Sebastian’s wife), Brother Sebastian advised Patricia to seek out Phra Ajaan Keng. Together with her brother, Kelvin, Patricia sought him out while he was residing near a hilltribe village called Huay Pla Lod, in Maesot, Thailand. He was on a retreat in an area called Saam Meung Thung, Doi Puu Kaa, which was a branch of Luang Phor Daen. When Patricia arrived at Luang Phor Den’s main monastery and told him of her purpose, Luang Phor Den sent a jeep with her brother Kelvin to fetch Phra Ajaan Keng. After meeting at Huay Pla Lod and being briefed on Patricia’s condition (terminal cancer), he decided to help her out of compassion. He encouraged her to constantly meditate to prepare for the final stage when she had to face death. Subsequently, a fellow monk of Phra Ajaan suggested that Patricia consult his uncle (who is also a monk), a reputable holistic medicine practitioner who has been treating cancer patients for a long period of time.
Together with his brother monk, Than Pok, and two other laymen (Mr Toi and Mr. Chumphon), Phra Ajaan took Patricia to Wat Khamyak, located at Tambon Khamyak, Amphoe Pho Thong, Ang Thong Province. Phra Ajaan attended to Patricia with the help of the local people for 45 days, until her death. After her death, he contacted Patricia’s family and made the necessary arrangements for her funeral.
Exhausted from the long stretch of having to attend to Patricia earlier and then to her funeral, Phra Ajaan decided to go into seclusion and stayed alone in the forest of Pang Ng at Tambon PaPae, Amphoe MaeTang, Chiengmai Province. One night, during this period of seclusion, while he was doing his walking meditation at about 2 a.m., a glow of light brightened up the forest near the end of his walking path. Phra Ajaan walked towards the light and discovered that it was Patricia. He was delighted to see her and quickly asked her what realm she was residing at. She told him that she was among a group of Dhamma emissaries and she came to thank Phra Ajaan for tending to her while she was sick. Because her friends were waiting for her, she had to leave. She vanished in an instant, and the whole forest was darkened again.
Her taking rebirth in the celestial realm may be partly attributable to the fact that she had a very compassionate heart for others. For example, even though she was suffering from cancer, she continued to volunteer her time to bring old folks (who had no family support) for their medical appointments and to help them communicate with doctors and nurses.
Even though Patricia was a total stranger, Phra Ajaan was willing to help her tackle her illness. Such indeed was the extent of his compassion for a fellow human being facing the last days of her life.
Somdet Phra Wanarat of Wat Bovornnives Vihāra, in Bangkok, commented to one of his lay supporters that Phra Ajaan Keng impressed him by the fact that he came from an urban and materially rich society yet was able to undertake severe ascetic practice, keeping strictly to the tradition of the forest masters. This is something that a majority of modern day monks find so challenging that many of them never even attempt it. The Somdet was also present at the ordination hall consecration ceremony and had confirmed for himself the extent to which Phra Ajaan Keng had motivated and aroused the faith of the laity.
In recognition of his contributions to the Sangha, the lay community, and his missionary work for the promotion of Buddhism, Phra Ajaan Keng was appointed a Thananukrom (Assistant) to Somdet Phra Wanarat of Wat Bovornnives, with the title of Phrakhru Phalad Samphiphathanasudhajaan Yanakosol Vimonseelajaan Mahakhanatikan Nayok Bidoethammarakkhit, on 17 September 2556 (2013), at Wat Bovornnives Vihara.
Later that year, on 5 December, Phra Ajaan Keng received the ecclesiatical title of “Chao Khun” from the King of Thailand and was given the name, “Vinayadhamma Vidhes.” This was further recognition of his deep devotion to the practice of the Buddhist path, his leadership of both ordained and lay members of the Buddhist community, expressed in his mentorship and support to his fellow monks and his propagation of Buddhism to the lay community as a whole.
Just over a year later, in 2558 (2015), Phra Ajaan Keng attended a training course for Preceptors (Upajjhāya), to gain the necessary skills and certifi cation to conduct Bhikkhu ordinations. With this certfication, Phra Ajaan has the authorisation of the Thai Sangha to ordain monks in the Southeast Asia region outside of Thailand.
In recent years, he has also been invited to many parts of Malaysia, China (Fujian Province), India (Andhra Pradesh and various cities in Indonesia (Jakarta, Medan, Pekan Baru) to teach the lay and ordained communities. There is a growing interest in the teachings of the Forest meditation tradition in these countries, and Phra Ajaan has been very motivated by their keen interest to study and practice the Dhamma.
Phra Ajaan has indeed been living for the welfare and benefit of devas and human beings, and it is our sincere wish that he enjoys good health and strength to carry on his Dhamma work for many more years to come.
Phra Ajaan Keng was given the ecclesiastical title of Chao Khun Vinayadhamma Vidhes on 5 December 2014 by the late King of Thailand. He is seen here receiving the rank fan from the then Prince of Thailand, and in the grounds of Wat Phra Keow after the ceremony – with his parents, his brother, sister-in-law and niece.
在上座部佛教森林传承里,通达中英双语乃至福建、客家等方言的尊者并不多见。而在此基础上,兼通达经论与具足甚深禪定者,更可说是寥寥无及。在茫茫人海中,却有这么一位来自獅城的尊者,总集上述特点于一身,他就是——阿姜庆尊者。虽然阿姜庆尊者具有各种头衔和禪定能力,在外在的示现上他总是如此地谦虚低调、如此地脚踏实地。其言谈举止,宛如一位和蔼可亲、地地道道的獅城大叔。但实际上,尊者实是一位善行道者、正直行道者、正理行道者、和敬行道者,是此世间的无上福田。
由于戒行圆满且具足甚深三摩地,尊者深受人天人等此界他界众生拥护。大菩提萨埵——龙普托尊者,亦曾于尊者禪定中亲自来访。虽已年近岛国的退休年龄(62岁),庆尊者依然喜居深山丛林等偏僻寂静处修行,并与偏远地区的民族携手合作,为弘扬佛法、推动社会福利辛勤付出,可谓德佑一方。作为一个出生在“亚洲四小龙”里的发达国家——新加坡的男生,尊者为何会毅然决然地看破尘世、又为何会奋不顾身地前往森林传承道場出家修行呢?笔者试图通过整理与庆尊者的多次对话、尊者法谈,资料等诸多资源,为世人介绍这位人天师表的出家生涯与修行经历。
昭坤庆尊者,俗名王嘉庆,生于1963年5月13日。彼时的新加坡,依然是大英帝国下的殖民地。尊者年满十八后,按照国家法律规定服役两年。期间被选为特种兵,接受严格苛刻的军训。这为尊者多年后隐居森林奠定了良好基础。服役满期后,庆尊者在一家餐馆里打了一份意大利料理厨师的工作。
幸而,众生福德因緣与尊者波羅蜜的成熟,一次偶然的契机促使他卸下了这一份工作。既然祸福无定,又岂知祸非福?正逢韶华之时的他,忽因恶疾缠身,而被判下了医学上的死刑——仅剩下两年寿命。俗话说得好:“病急乱投医,逢庙便烧香”。走投无路的尊者遍寻了岛国大大小小的寺庙,以期获得神佛的相助,却终究无益于事。最终,他决定利用闲暇时间在新加坡巴里莱寺的一间房间里,埋头禪修。当他终于获得了三摩地以后,他深知佛法是无欺的皈依处。因此,出家自然便成为了顺理成章的道路。
王嘉庆于1987年7月29日正式在在泰国法众部森林派的阿育王寺受比丘戒出家,法号 Khemako比丘。戒场——阿育王寺是祖师阿姜曼建立的森林传承的第三代。受戒仪式中, Phrakhru Sunthorn Dhammarangsee尊者 (Wat Phayaprap寺住持,Phra Padaeng)担任授戒师 ,Phrakhru Suvanna Dhammajot尊者(已故阿育王寺住持) 担任羯磨师, Phrakhru Nanda Dhammakhun 尊者(阿育王寺副住持)担任教授师。
受戒圆满后,庆尊者前往位于Rayong的 Wat Dhammasathit寺依止美国坦尼沙罗尊者修学法 与律。修学期间,庆尊者曾多次听闻坦尼沙罗尊者盛赞泰国北碧优美寂静的森林,为修学禪定 的最胜上妙之处。依师学习三年后,打下了教法的坚定基础并获得了足够的精神资粮的庆尊者 决定前往深山丛林里修行头陀梵行。
在阿姜萨田尊者的陪伴下,庆尊者在茂密树林里进行了密集禪修。这一段充实的时光,无疑是 一段难以忘怀的经验。首次头陀行让庆尊者深信新出家为沙门者应常住森林以培养三摩地的力 量。因此,相对于繁华的城市,庆尊者更喜居泰国境内的深山丛林,做一个名副其实的森林传 承比丘。
1989年始,庆尊者在清迈、湄索等地的深山丛林里禪修,时长五年。期间的饮食起居,全仰 赖当地老百姓的恩惠以存活命。1993年,庆尊者与此时正在一路北上修行头陀的隆达玛尊者 (大菩提萨埵隆普多的首座弟子)在Tham Muang Na的修行山洞里不期而遇。笔者私下与隆 都玛尊者交谈时,尊者仍然对当年头陀行暂居山洞的行者记忆犹新。
当庆尊者居住在湄索时,他依止了阿姜登 (龙普迦与阿姜放的弟子)。随后在1988年,阿姜 放的法体运回Wat Dhammasathit寺时,庆尊者逢遇并依止龙普迦。在龙普Oonla Thitadhammo尊者座下,尊者学习背诵比丘二百二十七条戒律。在森林传承里,Wat Paa Kaew Chumpol寺的龙普Oonla被认为是律仪背诵方面的专家。律仪背诵是欲行持解脱道者需 要学习的重要技能。如果能将二百二十七条戒律倒背如流,就有助于行者謹慎言行,成就清静 身语意三门。
应美国坦尼沙罗尊者之请,庆尊者前往美國加利福尼亞州圣迭戈(英語:San Diego)慈心森 林寺( Metta Forest Monastery)。庆尊者在此地度過了三次的结夏安居,协助美国坦尼沙罗 尊者弘法布教,利益僧俗二众。从美国归来后,庆尊者在新、马、泰等地四处云游。由于僧俗 二众的追随者与日增多,庆尊者在马来西亚启建了宁心寺。与此同时,尊者继续在泰国境内寻 找适宜修行的深山丛林以提升精神法道上的修持。正所谓:“法不孤起,仗境方生。道不虚行 ,遇缘即应。”庆尊者来到清迈府的翁桂,并在此居留四年。期间,他决定帮助当地村名起建 寺庙,并赐名Wat Paa Doi Charoentam。
庆尊者在此偏僻之地兴建寺庙的原因有二:其一,为森林传承的比丘提供优良的修行场所。其 二,为了向当地的村民表示感恩之情,以大悲心给予他们培养今世来世福报的因緣。庆尊者认 为年轻一代的僧人(如当年尊者一般)在心理上不具备足够的坚韧不拔的精神。由于他们从小 便在城市里长大,他们并不具备应付贫困生活情况的条件。而此地的村民则依靠白米饭、盐与 干辣椒活命。僧众乞食的时候,也只能得到这些物资。
唐·黄蘖禅师《上堂开示颂》云:“不经一番寒彻骨 焉得梅花扑鼻香”。同理,庆尊者认为:唯 有在这种艰难的环境下修行,才能够为僧众奠定良好的修行基础。对此,庆尊者深有感触。在 翁桂建寺之举,惠及了当地人民、比丘僧众。当宁心寺的管理团队成员来到此地时,才感叹道 :“与他们相比,我们可以说是福甲一方了!”但对庆尊者而言,这种艰苦的环境恰恰是培养忍 辱波羅蜜的最佳修行环境。
为庆祝新加坡建国50周年,庆尊者为58名男子剃度受戒。由于缺乏合格的戒堂来举办出家受戒的仪式,尊者采用了租船建立“水上戒堂”的方式。此后九天,他们遵照出家人的生活作息,九日里修持清静梵行。2015年8月8日,亦即国庆前夕,僧众一起通宵念诵《护卫经》,以祈国泰民安、风调雨顺。庆尊者也安排制造、加持一批佛牌,象征佛陀的甘露之雨加持岛国,以作纪念。
尽管庆尊者严格遵照传统的“林居”修行传承,但他依然秉持“自利利他”的精神,积极地在新、 马、泰等地弘扬教法,为新马僧侶提供修行指导。截至目前,庆尊者座下出家的比丘已多达 150人。为了给予新马弟子们获得出家律仪的机会,并护持宁心寺僧众按照律仪修行,庆尊者 在宁心寺建立了上座部佛教法宗派在新马地区的首座戒堂。开光胜住法会由上座部佛教法宗派 与大宗派的135位比丘共同见证,来自三个国家的千余名信众随喜参与。法会结束之后,68位 发心出家者剃度受戒。这无疑是新马佛教圈里的一大盛事!
庆尊者不仅慈悲摄受许多发心出家者,同时也帮助了许多人度過了生命中的困难与荆棘。有一 位名为Patricia的新加坡人患上癌症已长达6年。虽然病情稍有好转,但在1991年又再次复 发。由于她与Wendy贤友(Sebastian师兄之妻)的关系良好,Sebastian师兄建议Patricia去 寻求庆尊者的援助。Patricia与其兄长Kelvin,一同来到泰国的湄索去拜访正在森林里实修的 庆尊者。此处名为Saam Meung Thung, Doi Puu Kaa, 是龙普Den寺庙的分支。
当Patricia 来到龙普Den的寺庙时,她向龙普 Den说明来意。龙普Den二话不说,便派人带兄 妹二人去请庆尊者。当尊者被告知Patricia的病况时,他慈悲地答允帮助她。, 庆尊者鼓励 Patricia不断地打坐,为死亡做好准备。随后,庆尊者的同修道友建议Patricia寻求其叔(一位 精通医药、长期为患上癌症的病人提供治疗的比丘)。因此,庆尊者便与Patricia及一位比丘 和兩名善信一起前往昂通地区。在Patricia去世前的45天里,庆尊者与当地村民共同帮助 Patricia度过了弥留之际的岁月。Patricia去世之后,庆尊者联络了Patricia的家人并安排了葬礼 的相关事宜。
因照顾Patricia及安排后事而身心疲惫的庆尊者决定前往清迈的森林里独自打坐修行。一晚, 在大约半夜2点钟的时候,正在经行的庆尊者见到乌黑的森林里突然出现了光明。庆尊者向光 明走去,赫然发现原来是刚刚去世的Patricia前来拜访。见到Patricia时,尊者感到极为欣喜, 并赶紧问她已投生到何处?Patricia回答说自己已经成为修行的天人,此次前来是為了感恩庆 尊者在她生病时所提供的帮助。然而,由于其他的天人众正在等她,所以她必须要离开。刹那 间,光明消失了,而整个森林再次变得漆黑一片。
细探Patricia投生天界之事,可以往前追究到她一向心善仁慈的性格。虽然她身患绝症,但她 依然风雨不改地为孤独独居老人做义工、陪伴他们,为他们安排身体检查以及协助他们与医 生、护士沟通。而尽管Patricia与庆尊者此前从未见面,但尊者以慈悲心帮助她脱离病苦,获 得良好的投生。
Wat Bovornnives Vihāra寺的僧王Somdet Phra Wanarat 曾經称赞庆尊者虽然出生于一个富裕 的现代化城市,却能够严谨地遵循森林传承的修行方式,确实是难能可贵!对于许多现今时代 的出家人而言,这样艰苦的修行方式已经让他们望之怯步。僧王也亲自出席了戒堂的开光胜住 仪式,并肯定了庆尊者的修行成果。
为了表扬庆尊者对比丘僧众及在家信众的突出贡献,庆尊者于2013年9月17日(佛历2556 年)被选为僧王的侍从Thananukrom,并受封号Phrakhru Phalad Samphiphathanasudhajaan Yanakosol Vimonseelajaan Mahakhanatikan Nayok Bidoethammarakkhit。2013年12月5日,庆尊者又受泰国皇室封为“昭坤”,以进一步表彰尊者 对佛教及社会事业的无限付出。佛历2558年(2015),庆尊者参与了授戒师的训练,以此获 得为僧众剃度传戒的资格。近年以来,尊者到访了中国大陆福建省、印度、马来西亚等地,利 益了各个地方的僧俗二众。由此可见,庆尊者确实是世間大良福田,是一切人天众生的皈依处与依怙!
在2019年2月25日, Por khao wanchart yimme 曾經將ajahn keng 的心和阿姜曼,luang pu waen 齊名,可想而知他的修行並不簡單
Por khao wanchart yimme 第一次見 Ajahn Keng 的時候,說他們兩人的心融在一起
Luang por ganha 和luang por uthai 都說Ajahn Keng 的修行很好
是你們很喜歡聽的啦
一個人死了之後,很多問,是立即去投胎嗎?
有些人有很多疑問:佛教裡講,人死了後就立即投胎,當下就去投胎?
你要明白,不是每個人都有這麼重的業
比如,一個人,他有常常做布施,那個人常常有念經有打坐,有常常的,不是一個禮拜做一次,一年做一次,那種就….那些有每天,有常常地迴向功德,而且每次都很善良做善事的人。這種人,他一死,就beeee!立即就上了!
那另外一種,好事沒有做,壞事做到盡。這種,一死,就馬上下地獄了。
通常的啦,他們會停留在人間。因為有時有做好事,有時有做壞事啦。沒有這麼勤勞的去做這些善業,不勤勞啦。這種人,他就會在人間七天。
所以佛教裡面,他們很講究,在第一天到第七天裡面,他家中的人會很用心,每天做布施,做法會。有他的根據的,不是迷信的。
現在的人,因為有聽某一位法師的講法,他沒有讀到這個經典,沒有怎樣研究。他就說,什麼都不用的啦。誒,不要比佛陀更厲害,可以嗎?(嘿嘿嘿)。我每一次講,他們很喜歡用自己的一套講法。
在經典都有記載。而且呢,那些老師父,祖師大德,都有看到的。所以他們說一天到七天裡面,我們做迴向功德給這些人。因為這些人還沒有投胎,他們還可以隨喜這一份功德。還是在這個境界裡面,還沒有去投胎。大多數都是還沒有投胎的啦,為什麼?還輪迴的嘛,由那個人所做的業去推。所以你講儀式。因為我們小時候,有很多時候,家裡有燒金紙,有沒有?我們華人嘛,做功德,燒這個燒那個,我們覺得很矛盾,對不對?而且我們有做嗎?有做!
就是這個儀式是有他的根據。因為那個人做的時候,他會憶起家裡的往生者,比如說祖先,你的阿公,或者你夢到的。然後有一天你媽媽拿照片給你看,然後你:‘啊!這是誰’ 啊!你的阿公嘛。他很早死嘛。
現在的人就是這樣。因為網絡的關係。你看到的太多了。然後有很多就是排斥佛教的儀式。有它的存在的!有東西你做的,比如:老一輩的人做嘛,然後我們跟著做。然後我們覺得很矛盾。沒有一個原因我們做嘛,我們就覺得很矛盾! 當我們產生矛盾的時候,我們當然要怎樣?尋找那個答案嘛! 以前的人就是沒有讀書嘛,哪裡找經書? 不像現在很現代,你要的知識,只是手指一點,在Google ,在經典裡面全部找得到。
但以前的人所做的,你不能說他們是錯的!比如說孝順父母,你說他們是錯的嗎?不是啊!要孝順父母!沒有父母沒有祖先,哪有我們?所以在佛教裡面,我們說道德的概念。 要行孝,我們有父母存在,我們好好地孝順我們的父母親。照顧他們。雖然你不是很富有,但是你關心他。用你最好的關心去關心你的父母。不要只關心你老婆而已。我們華人有一句話,小時候就听到大人在講:‘小時候,就是母親的兒子啦。娶老婆了,大了時候,就變成老婆的兒子。’ 就是很照顧自己的老婆,疏忽了自己的母親。
以前小時候常常聽歌,但長大了後,就覺得—誒,很有意思啊! 為什麼呢?就是提醒現在的這些年輕人,就是說:我們結婚不要有兒子了,不要有後代。現在是這樣的。而且呢,現在的是變態。不是罵他們,而是有很奇怪的古怪的,沒有道德的想法。就變成社會慢慢地顛倒了。顛倒得很快。哇:為什麼會變得這個沒有道德的風氣很重? 所以現在的人,這麼多苦,這麼痛苦,就是這樣了。就是因為心裡不平衡,就是找不到快樂,找不到內心的寧靜,找不到內心的寂樂。
所以我們要靠做布施,不一定要來寺廟的。不一定!做善業,服務人群。去老人院服務人群,去孤兒院服務人群。那些慈善機構去幫忙。這些慈善服務就叫做voluntary assistance . 這些東西你做了之後你也會很高興很開心的。這些就叫善業。不是說講寺廟才有的。外面也有的。
這對你好,你會很開心。你會看到,人生不是想像中的。現在有些人太富有了!有錢,找不到真正的幸福和快樂。所以就搞什麼?搞沒有道德的觀念。因為你有道德,有很多東西不可以做,不可以殺生,不可以偷盜,不可以邪淫,不可以搞婚外情。不可以喝酒。為什麼?這些都是會導致你自己本身跟你家裡的人很頭痛的!他的後患!如果一個人發生了犯法的東西,是否全家人都起煩惱? 全家人! 你一個人打人,或者被人打。或者用車去撞死人,或者被其他人撞到。全家人都會煩惱,對嗎? 因為你去偷你去搶,你去犯法,你去講騙話,做犯法的東西。你去勾引人家的女兒,人家的太太;你去賭博,欠了許多大耳窿,全家都遭殃!
而且人就是這樣,沒有靠近善知識者。每次參與的都是這些不良之友,他的心就是傾向於那種自私自利的,只顧自己,不顧別人的想法。所以他們不擇手段,什麼東西都敢做的。所以這些人活得很苦,他不知道這是苦來的。哦~沒有辦法,這就是人的業。
所以佛教裡面就說,接近善知識者,能夠給你什麼?增加你的智慧,增加你的善業。好像我們剛才看到許多人布施,你看! 最基本的,他帶他的父母來的。累積什麼? 善業!他的父母也明白,我做這個布施是很好的。不懂多麼好啦,我兒子跟我講好我就做囖。你看,你不要少看這種小動作啦。在他做大事的時候,他做,在他的記憶裡面,意識裡面,他有什麼? 他記得,他一想起就會高興。他一想到 buddho ,一個善念,他馬上就升天。
相反地,如果我們人沒有累積善業,沒有做善業,沒有想要做善業。而且每次就毀謗,不鼓勵別人去做好事。你的心就不斷往下流。那個時候,當他斷氣的時候,什麼都是假的。你有多麼多的名表,多麼好的醫療護理啦,你們有多麼的保險;都幫不了的。這個時候誰幫得到你了?善業!你的良心。平常所累積的善業。布施的善業,守戒律的善業,念經,就是修你的身-行為;口,語言;意-就是你想。身口意。這個就是我們去修的。
這個就是佛陀鼓勵我們,做戒定慧,做布施這一類的善業,就是為了要給我們充足自己。就是為了給我們人類,佛教徒,累積下一世的資糧。這個是你的籌備資金來的。你現在籌備,你不用怕你死了之後佛教滅了沒有人給你做布施。我已經有了很好的nimitta(相) 了,上面已經有人會來接我。很有把握的。
不是那種—哇,希望這個醫生能夠幫忙他。希望這個兒女能夠幫忙他。盼望科技能夠幫忙他。幫得了嗎? 幫不了的。真正事情的發生的時候,誰都幫不到自己。只有身跟心。這個身,這個肉體呢,包死的,包離開的。
而心呢?不會死的。所以我們要利用現在的這個身體。所以說:‘身難得今已得,佛法難聞今已聞,此身不向今生度,更待何生度此身。’
就是這個身體了,這一生呢,這個身體,你要度自己。
----Ajahn Keng
問:尊敬的 ajahn keng , 請問念誦 itipiso 有什麼特別的利益?
Ajahn keng:心想事成
大部份我們的問題都是自己創造給自己的。
就是我們心中的渴愛,想要太多,野心勃勃的計劃,所以注入更多的壓力進我們的心中….因為我們不能實現我們所想要的。這是現今許多人在受苦的原因;不論他們的性別,年齡。
因為生起的心的狀態是很細微的,一般沒有修行的人會覺得很難覺知它。雖然他們感覺到自己的緊張,但他們很難去解開!
---ajahn keng
信众问:师父,请问求多闻天王还是求观世音菩萨比较灵?(众笑)
昭坤庆:哈哈!很好的问题。我觉得可能因为我们受南传佛教的影响。(我所要讲述的内容)是在经典里有依据的,具体出处在阿达那地雅护卫偈。之所以我敢于跟各位分享,是因为这些内容在经典里是有记载的,而且我本身也有许多的经历。
有一次,我在马来西亚一个四周甘榜(译注:马来族群群居生活的地方)围绕的地方修行。当然,你们知道这些族群非常不友善,用马来语对我呵骂道:“你是猪头”,并且手持parang大刀威胁我。当时,看到这一幕,我的双脚都在抖动、非常害怕。毕竟,我不是用铁炼成的,如果那一刀下去,可能命都保不住了。他们追问“你在这里做什么?”(马来语),我回答道:“我在这里工作”(马来语)。
这可不是好玩的。那个时候,很多事情发生,许多人对我下了黑咒术。当时,毕竟不在泰国,如果在泰国(遇到这类事情),可以投奔大师父们帮忙来解决。(师开玩笑)我当时转身看了一看,哪有什么大法师可以帮忙解决!这时,我就想起经典里面的阿达那地雅护卫偈。
确实不可思议,真的得到了天王眷属的帮助。当我静坐的时候,看到许多天人(就像人一样,但不是拿刀)而是手持铁棒。他们跟我说:“师父不用怕,有我们保护。”当时,我就信心一振,对解决恶咒术的问题有了把握。天人们只要见到那些伤害我的,就立刻出手打,简直就是打成一团。如果没有天人们的帮忙,我当时肯定熬不过那个关头。
所以,你们看为什么我们寺庙外面立了一尊多闻天王(夜叉之王)手执铁棒的塑像,就是因为这个缘故。有人问我:“师父,怎么寺庙外面放那么难看的夜叉相。” 我说“难看?我还要感谢他来帮我。这样,我念经的时候才会想起他们呐。”因为,我们人要懂得感恩。自己没有力量的时候,就要找人家帮一下。
好像你说观世音菩萨。我们是出家人,在我们的想法里,观世音菩萨是女相的哦。(众笑)其实,观世音是什么意思?世音是什么?就是苦、无常、无我!但是,在印度的观世音菩萨好像是肥肥胖胖的,印度也有他们的版本!所以,不同的文化就将不同的天神(尊)做成不同的形象。在泰国,多闻天王就是夜叉相,非常猛烈、可怕,牙齿长长、手持铁棒。可是,你看我们华人的、北传寺庙里面的多闻天王,都是非常庄严的将军相、不可怕的。在藏传又是不一样。
所以,不同的文化有不同的形象。万法归心,画出来的形象都是为了配合当地人的信仰。所以,你问我观世音菩萨和多闻天王哪个比较灵,我觉得应该已经回答你的问题了。
大家一定要記住一句話:修行是為了斷除貪嗔痴,為了修這顆心。
心,是沒有分南傳北傳藏傳。心,就是心。
可是因為受到不同的佛教傳承的影響,導致很多修行的人半知半懂,修得很模糊,不懂在修什麼,加上常聽到不同的開示,因此這顆心一直很混亂,找不到寄託。
修行的法門有很多,比如唸佛、觀呼吸、念buddho、觀腹部等等,但很多人都沒有真正的修,沒有誠心誠意的付出努力。結果,不能從中修得有成就,妄念還是那麼地多,心還是那麼的亂,從來沒有體會過平靜。所以,以為法門不好,聽別人說某某法門好,就一直換法門。結果一直在找,一直在換,道聽塗說,沒有真正用心的去把一個法門掌握好。到最後什麼也做不到。於是就埋怨,修行沒能給自己帶來利益,卻沒有看到是自己的心一直往外跑。
法門無量,那是因為眾生的性格背景不同。法門雖多,但目標只有一個,那就是讓心平靜。當你選擇一個跟自己相應的法門之後,就該用心、誠心的去修,要一整天都把正念放在法門上。比如唸佛的,就要常把正念放在佛號;觀呼吸的,就要常常把正念放在呼吸上。
修行重要是腳踏實地,心安理得,如果你能夠掌握一個法門,不管是唸佛,觀呼吸,buddho。。。如果掌握了,就不要時常轉換。也不要為了這個法門而吵鬧,說“你的法門不究竟,我的法門才是最好”。佛教界會亂,就是為了這個亂,為了去爭辯“對與錯”,卻沒有腳踏實地地修行。如果你真的好,就靜靜嘛!好的人不會去批評別人,好的人會靜靜的修行。
Chao Khun Kheng Khemako
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